Steve complains that all Paul had to do was bring her roses and she was falling right back into old patterns of being manipulated. When she protests and starts to get upset, he shows her the feedback where arrogant Paul basically says he knows she’ll come back to him when all her other options run out.
In contrast, Carl says he can see that Paul was controlling and that Elizabeth is torn over the worthless dude, but that she’s worth fighting for.
Most significant is that Steve points out that her parents always gave her everything she ever wanted as long as she did exactly what they said and that Paul is the same way. He makes her promise that she will not return to that relationship when boot camp ends. He also promises that he and his mother will be there for all of them, even when boot camp is over.
After reassuring Elizabeth that she was only in the hot seat to answer questions, not because she did the worst (’cause that girl would stay awake at night knowing there is a three strikes rule in the house and she has been called to the hot seat twice), Steve sends her back to her seat and addresses the group.
He tells them that he’s really worried they are going to fall back into old patterns once they leave boot camp, so he’s decided to flip the script and test them out. The next day he’ll be sending them home for a few days.
And that’s when we discover that Danielle is an ugly crier.
Not only will the girls be headed home, they will be bringing their dates with them.
Nope, not pretty at all.
Danielle isn’t sure she wants to bring Corey home with all her confused emotions. And she doesn’t seem to be the only one worried about the idea of mixing their old life with their new lessons.
And so our episode ends. Will the girls be able to fend off bad habits and stay strong at home? The preview for next week looks like we’ll be getting an eyeful. I hope Danielle doesn’t actually try to go all the way back to ten years ago when she’s finally starting to understand how to act like a lady!
Keep your fingers crossed for her and all the girls, Gasmii!
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Missed you, Luscious! It just wasn’t the same without your recap of the show. Just gotta wonder if the make-up artist had an eye patch on that day, don’t ya?!? Love how you used the telestrator technique to point out the flaws! lol
Oh my gawd. Going home, but thanks for the snarky comments under the pictures. Will read the full recap tomorrow. You are great Luscious. Glad you had fun at the wedding.
Gah! I always hate the exes episode. Yes, you can run into an ex anywhere. However, you usually don’t run into them at your own house where you are hanging out with the person you’re currently seeing. In real life, if you see an ex, it’s usually in a place where you can say a quick hello and then walk away (if it’s in public like a restaurant or store or whatnot) or simply ignore them for the night (say at a party at a mutual friend’s place).
Rant over. Thanks.
Welcome back, Luscious!
I’m glad you had fun at the wedding and congrats to your cousin!
Paul was disgusting. I wanted to pick up Elizabeth and throw her silly ass through the wall for taking so long to tell him to get the hell out. I don’t even understand how she could sit there and feel anything for Paul after experiencing Carl. That’s like someone crying over their rusty old bike after being gifted a Lamborghini. Just foolish.
And the exes episode is actually one of my favorites. It always yields some of the juiciest moments (I wish to GOD Tiffany had made it to the ex episode…can you imagine her ex(?)-husband telling that story about her stabbing his then-pregnant wife?) and it’s a good litmus test for seeing how much the girls have really changed. Also, I think it’s a good chance for them to concretely see the difference between the kinds of men they’ve been with versus the kinds of men they need to be with, and to see the difference between how they feel when they’re with these men. Like even when a lady is dating a bad guy, she can fool herself into thinking that she’s happy and enjoying it. But after dating a good guy and genuinely being happy, it’s probably easier to tell that the happy feelings with the bad guy weren’t real.
That’s how it should have been with Elizabeth, except for that she’s a dodo bird and didn’t quite get the point.
I think the lesson wasn’t lost on Stephanie and Shalana though….their exes were super-douches.
Everytime I see the ‘best of show’ graphic in the recaps I read it as ‘best IN show.’ As if Tough Love Boot Camp is the Westminster dog show.
I wondered what the hell was up with Chris’s comment about Melissa not being a virgin anymore. Poor guy heres to hoping that he didn’t think getting kissed is the same thing as losing ones virginity.
I felt bad for Elizabeth but I also wanted to slap her. Shalana should have slapped Omar. I wasn’t too convinced about Aubrey but after I saw how he handled that loser Omar I like him.
Boo the ex episode means the show is coming to an end. I wish Steve did a recap with the girls from the prior seasons so see how well they have held up their end of the bargain. I can’t believe there isn’t therapy involved for these ladies as the obviously need it.
Don’t think I could ever have such a reaction to any ex of mine. I don’t get it, but I guess that is why they are on this show.
Elizabeth in jail? No farking way. Wonder if the other girls thought she was a working girl?
It is just so painful to see these sweet, vulnerable girls suffer. I truly believe that this show isn’t scripted, just an honest program about lives being healed. No drama. No fighting. Just supportive comrades.
Painful, but uplifting.
I wish them all, not luck, but success.
Funny, I recalled seeing my ex. I was at an art fair with a friend, with my year old kitten in a stroller.